I know I am not the only one who has struggled with their weight.
That it’s not just about what size we are, but what we see when we look in the mirror. Who looks back at us and do we approve or make a list of everything that needs to change.
Living in a society where youth and the media’s opinion of beauty are prized, sometimes it’s really hard to feel like you can even throw your hat in the ring at a size 16.
But this is where I have landed. I have gained and lost hundreds of pounds. Been so thin my doctor and friends were concerned, and been carrying enough weight that a flight of stairs kicked my ass.
Finding out I was dancing with Type 2 Diabetes a few years ago, and having suddenly lost my Mom to Diabetic complications three years ago has weighed heavy on my heart.
Myself and my body have found a happy place with a balanced diet, no weight gain, and the energy that I need to keep up with the demands of working full time, my family and home and trying to find a little creative time too.
I am a size 16, I wear a 1x sometimes a 2x depending on the brand and I am happy. I have waited so long to even say it out loud. I was afraid I was giving up or back on the road to another rapid weight gain, but after spending a couple years healing from an abusive relationship and learning how to love myself again, something new was born. [Read more…]